Intended Parents
Frequently Asked Questions
Matching
Intended Parents to Surrogates and Egg Donors
Application
Process for Intended Parents
Arkansas Law and Birth Certificates
Non-Arkansas or Non-U.S. Residents
Could the Surrogate Keep
Our Child
We Already Have a Surrogate
Q:
How will the agency match us with a surrogate or egg donor?
A:
All potential surrogates and egg donors complete a profile and application
(more than 45 pages) providing comprehensive personal information.
The candidates must complete other important screening steps. Monica
Mason, the founder of Surrogacy Solutions talks one on one with
each candidate.
Surrogacy Solutions
staff and intended parents discuss:
- The reasons
for requiring the agency’s services
- What you
are looking for in a surrogate or donor
- Your views
about specific aspects of the surrogacy or egg donation process
- Your personality
- The level
of involvement you want with your surrogate
- Your privacy
concerns
We strive to
match you with a surrogate whose personal views and personality
appear most closely complimentary of your own, in addition to meeting
your specified criteria. We
will ordinarily provide you with candidates to consider immediately
after you decide to work with us.
Intended parents
receive a copy of the profile and photographs of the candidate and
her children. Identifying information is not revealed initially.
After your selection of a surrogate, the surrogate’s last
name will be provided. The final step is a meeting between the surrogate
and intended parents providing an opportunity for either party to
cancel the contract. Intended parents do not usually meet their egg
donor or receive her last name.
Q:
Do we have to complete any kind of application process?
A: Yes, you provide Surrogacy Solutions with personal
and health information about yourselves. You provide a color copy
of your driver’s licenses, consent to a child abuse registry
inquiry and criminal background check. If married, you will provide
a copy of your marriage license. You must complete one or more in
person or telephone interviews with agency personnel as the final
step in receiving the agreement of the agency to assist you. Intended
fathers whose sperm will be utilized to create their child or whose
wife will carry their pregnancy must take an HIV, CMV, and Hepatitis
B and C blood tests, undergo STD screens and a semen analysis, and
will provide a health history to the agency and the treating physician.
Intended mothers who will carry their pregnancy and only seek an
egg donor will complete the same blood tests, as well as additional
tests required by the treating physician. Intended mothers seeking
a surrogate must take HIV, CMV, and Hepatitis B and C blood tests,
and may expect to provide a health history to the treating physician
for a gestational surrogacy. In some instances, treating physicians
will require additional testing of intended parents, such as a chest
x-ray or EKG. Prior to signing a contract for surrogacy, you must
provide the agency with a copy of your wills designating the name
and address of the person appointed to take custody of and provide
care for your child in the event of your death before or after the
birth of your child, and you must provide evidence of insurance
on the life of each of you in the amount of at least $100,000 for
the exclusive benefit of the child to be born through surrogacy
(or naming a trust for the benefit of the child).
Q:
Why would we want to use Arkansas law in our surrogacy arrangement?
A:
The surrogacy law in Arkansas is among the most favorable in the
United States. Arkansas law states that a child born to a surrogate
is the child of the intended father and his wife, if he is married.
An unmarried intended mother using anonymous donor sperm is also
declared to be the mother of her child born to an artificial insemination
surrogate. The same law has a simple procedure for placing the intended
parent’s names on the child’s birth certificate, so
the parents do not have to “adopt” their own child.
This favorable law on surrogacy is a statutory law enacted by the
Arkansas Legislature rather than case law created by judges.
Q:
Can Surrogacy Solutions help us if we do not live in Arkansas?
A:
Yes. Most of our clients do not live in Arkansas, and several of
our surrogates and egg donors do not live in Arkansas. You are not
required to live in Arkansas to form your contract under and take
advantage of Arkansas law on surrogacy.
Q:
What if the surrogate changes her mind after she is pregnant with
our child?
A:
In all surrogacy arrangements through Surrogacy Solutions, the contract
provides that Arkansas is the place the parties select for the laws
to govern, interpret, and enforce the contract. Arkansas state law
says that a child born to a surrogate mother is the child of:
- The biological
father and his wife, if he is married,
- The intended
father only, if he is not married, or
- The intended
mother when anonymous donor sperm is used.
Thus, using
Arkansas law places the intended parents in the most favorable position
possible in a surrogacy arrangement, and does not allow the surrogate
to change her mind after she is pregnant, like she could in an adoption
proceeding or certain other states in the country permitting surrogates
to cancel a contract after they become pregnant. Arkansas favors
creation of the family with the intended parents.
Q:
We have been surfing the free classified ad Web sites and believe
we have found a surrogate mother we want to work with. Do we still
need Surrogacy Solutions?
A:
Yes, you do. Finding your surrogate is a very big and important
step, the first step. After that, you would benefit greatly from
the help of Surrogacy Solutions in tying down the numerous details
that should go into the contract with your surrogate. In part, those
details will be: negotiating for a written contract with your surrogate;
the coordination of medical treatment before and during pregnancy,
and for delivery; understanding and working through the many options
available to you in a third party reproduction relationship; and
settling financial and business details so you can concentrate on
your relationship with your surrogate in creating your family. You
will benefit from our experience with many different couples. We
help you understand the many options you should explore with your
surrogate. We help provide you and the surrogate peace of mind knowing
your contract is in place and is enforceable. We will assist you
and your surrogate during the transition after the birth of your
child. At Surrogacy Solutions there is a difference in management
and coordination of each individual case.
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